Sunday, November 24, 2019

If you keep listening to what the world thinks of you, you will develop a habit of considering others’ opinion before what you have in your mind.

To the people who judge others for who they are, please stop. Don't take others feelings for granted. Saying even the simplest of things can cause people to cower and close themselves. You never know but you  might be one of the people who they look up too. They don't show it but your each and every move are being admired. Your words are being taken account of.
So today its not to the people who lack in self love, but to those with overflowing  confidence and self affection. The people living in your shadow is trying hard to get out of their shell and show their true colors. To you, calling someone dull or slow might be funny and uneventful, but to them your words carry so much weight, they start putting your words into action. They start to present themselves as dull and boring. Slowly they start carrying the typical tag of "OUTCAST" and people are soon to be forgotten of their existence. therefore, for their sake stop this small comments and save them from a life of an outcast.
Now to 'them', don't blindly listen to others assumption of your personality. build it yourself. Find your own peace and happiness because you are the only person who knows what you want the best. Don't run behind overrated people who are not considering your feelings.
Good luck in loving yourself.

Tuesday, November 5, 2019

Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.


Be kind to yourself.
Get to know yourself. 

Let yourself have feelings. 
Consider what self-esteem means to you. 
Try to challenge unkind thoughts about yourself.
Avoid comparing yourself to others. 
Say positive things to yourself.


Look after yourself.
Try to get enough sleep. 
Think about your diet.
Try to do some physical activity.
Spend time outside.


Celebrate your successes.
Accept compliments. 
Ask people what they like about you. 
Don't put too much weight on negatives. 
Write a list of things you like about yourself. 
Build a support network.
Talk to someone. 
Try peer support.

Do something for yourself every day. 
Let yourself have fun.